Hi thanks for the info, however, im not worried about what people think now, im worried for my daughter when shes 11years old plus. The world is evil, and ive seen bullying in school for someone with hearing aids, evn though i never bullied anyone for their support advices/differences etc. I know what people are like, and it would hurt me knowing people would bully my daughter, so im trying to protect her from evil people. Not worried for next few years, im worried for her teenage years. If i was deaf, i would have a cochlear implant and wouldnt hide it - so i dont want people thinking im against it look. My daughter has severe - profound hearing loss ranging from 55 - 95 db. Plus i have heard from an ENT Prof. that a clinical trial is still in progress where there has been a invisible cochlear implant (not esteem) implanted in adults. If successful, they would be for children aswell.
I was bullied all through school. My father told me his earliest memories of me going to school was kicking and screaming as he carried me to the bus. I was bullied from elementary, to middle school, to high school - had zero friends. My hearing aids and speech had nothing to do with it. If kids choose to bully a child, I guaranty you there’s no logic behind it. Don’t take my word for it, just read the news. I’m in martial arts - and have been since 11 or 12. Best thing I ever did for myself (or my parents did for me before I earned my own tuition) - I’d encourage her in that direction: Karate, Kung Fu, Muay Thai, Judo, whatever makes her happy as long as she sticks with it. It’ll give her confidence well through school and into her career when she starts working.
Laura