I wear BTEs with thick tubing and mould with a small vent
Hum! I’m no expert, but that seems like OVERKILL for your hearing loss? Look at my cinderblock ears and I’m in connected via wire to speaker with just a double-dome silicone dome on the end, so there’s not a perfect seal.
I DO absolutely concur that if word comprehension is not pretty high up there, you will be more likely to get cross, impatient, and even think folks are purposely talking softly to you. I’ve been there.
But if you can find aids that deliver on the SPEECH comprehension, you may be able to relax a bit more. Not saying background noise won’t always be our eternal HOLY GRAIL to work around …
I am wearing Phonak Lumity Life aids now, and yesterday, at my audi’s there was a senior couple sitting clear across the waiting room from me - both in masks. We had a delightful conversation where I never missed ONE word in about 15 min of banter. That is the kind of comfort that puts me at ease during the day.
BUT! Put me in a clatterhouse diner filled with shouting people at a table where maybe some folks have a soft voice? LOL. I am hunched forward, looking at their mouths and aids are in “Speech in LOUD Noise” program. That’s another “coping” tool, but it’s a tough slog in noisy places.
Just try to take a few deep breaths and calm yourself inside. Be very focused on what folks are saying, and if the setting is too noisy - get OUT of it.
You’re ignoring this member’s posts.

), scheduling your day with quiet breaks. Reduced course load is a reasonable accommodation request if you feel that would be worthwhile, though I don’t know if you are in highschool or university.