I have the Philips 9040, having come from Phonak with the KS10. The first time I was in a restaurant there was loud speech in the background at a table directly behind us. I was annoyed that I could hear too much of the conversation behind me. Never had that with the KS10 because the KS10 shut down the stuff behind me. I can switch programs to make the Philips more like the the KS10. But I prefer to get used to hearing all the sounds, so I’m leaving them in the “General” program and re-learning how to focus on what I want to listen to.
I was in the exact same boat with you when I started wearing the Oticon aids from the Costco Resound aids. I thought there was something wrong with the Oticon and was really annoyed because I didn’t get the noise suppression I was used to with the Resound and it was really annoying to have to hear everything, including what I didn’t want to hear.
When I researched it more and understood that this was a different (open) paradigm, I changed my attitude from being negatively annoyed by the noise to embracing it and truly try to give it a go with the open paradigm. It was taxing at first, but by the end of the first month and toward the second month, I was getting more used to it and didn’t mind the noise much anymore. I also think that it depends on one’s hearing loss. Yours and mine are similar enough, and we still have relatively good hearing in the lows, which gives us a wide enough dynamic range there. But for folks with heavier hearing loss, I think it can be harder for them to focus and filter, especially heavier hearing losses tend to narrow down the dynamic range of the volume too much, so if it’s too narrow, everything sounds almost equally loud and you don’t get the finer nuances on the volume levels, which is only available in a wider dynamic range, to be able to focus and filter.
I remember watching an Audiology Online presentation by Don Schum (from Oticon) that actually said that if you have more speech cues available to you from multiple speech sources, it’ll help enable your brain hearing to differentiate and filter and focus better on which one you want to hear, because the differences in the characteristics of the voices give you a telltale sign of which one you want to follow and which one you want to ignore. I think what he was getting at is that hearing from multiple speech sources around you should not really be a big problem because they all have distinct characteristics in their voices to let you differentiate better.
Of course soft spoken voices (like my daughter’s) can get overcome by louder voices. Oticon has a feature exclusive to the VAC+ fitting rationale only, called Soft Speech Booster, to help with this. I find it to work OK, but nothing earth shattering. But better than nothing, I guess.